Introduction : people in grocery stores
3. The adoption process : fingerprints, documennts, and The Wait
4. Digging deeper : beyond the paperwork
5. Welcoming the whole child : personal histories
6. The child's right to privacy
7. Talking about adoption
8. People will ask you questions : representing the child and adoption
9. Both an adoptive family and just another family
Conclusion : you're in on it, too
Conversation starters : questions to prompt discussion
Additional adoption resources for friends and relatives.